Bridging Resources West Virginia can help a person get the answers one needs to find support for loved ones during the upcoming holiday season. As the holiday season approaches, many people eagerly anticipate the joy of reuniting with family and friends. Traveling home can be exciting, especially if a person doesn’t spend much time together throughout the year. However, for those visiting aging parents or grandparents, the holidays may look a bit different this year.
It’s not uncommon to notice changes in a person’s loved ones’ living conditions or health that may have occurred during the past year, or even a few months. As a person spends time with them, consider these signs that may indicate they need additional support.
Financial management: Are there piles of unopened mail or “past due” notices?
Home maintenance: Look around the house, both inside and out. Is the home well-maintained? Are dishes piling up in the sink? Are there broken items that haven’t been fixed?
Medication management: Check for unused or missing medications. Are they taking their prescriptions as directed? Do they have the financial means to afford their medications?
Mobility concerns: Observe their movement. Are they shuffling when they walk? Are they able to navigate stairs safely?
Cognitive concerns: Are they having difficulty following or maintaining a conversation? Are they forgetting directions or wandering? These concerns are more than normal aging and forgetfulness that naturally can happen over time.
Social interaction: As people age, social circles often shrink. Notice any signs of isolation or depression. Are they bathing daily, wearing clean clothes, and maintaining personal hygiene? How much social interaction do they have with others?
Nutrition: What’s in the refrigerator or pantry? Are they eating well? Aging adults may cut back on groceries when faced with the choice between food and medication.
Driving safety: If one’s parents drive, take a walk around the vehicle. Are there any new dents or dings? Take a drive with them to assess their driving abilities.
Home safety: Do they need any additional equipment, such as grab bars in the shower, a shower chair, or a wheelchair ramp, to remain safe at home?
If a person notices any of these signs, it’s important to start a conversation this holiday season. Addressing these concerns early can help ensure one’s loved ones receive the care and support they need to maintain their health, safety, and independence.
Start the conversation this holiday season. It may be the most important gift a person gives.
Learn more at br-wv.org or call 866-981-2372.
